CalExotics Scandal - Bed cross set, 183 cm straps

The straps cross over the bed and connect four padded cuffs, two at the wrists and two at the ankles, for an X position. The stated length is 183 centimetres, in polyester and polypropylene. Swivel clasps allow position changes without undoing everything. The CalExotics Scandal Bed Cross Set adjusts to every bed size.

Why choose this model?

• Cross position: all four limbs are spread at once, which sets this system apart from ties that handle each attachment separately.
• 183 stated centimetres: the figure is published, unlike many sets of this kind sold with no dimension at all.
• Swivel clasps: repositioning happens without dismantling the setup, which matters over a long session.
• Four padded cuffs: wrists and ankles are treated the same way, with nothing further to buy.
• Adjustable to any bed size: no format constraint, from a single bed to an extra-large one.

How to use it

1. Set the system up unloaded and check that a restrained person can be freed within seconds.
2. Adjust each cuff to two fingers' clearance, without tightening further to improve the hold.
3. Place the swivel clasps so they stay reachable from the position, not only from the side of the bed.
4. Never run a strap around the neck, whatever position is being sought.
5. Check the colour and temperature of hands and feet regularly during the session.

The eight D-ring restraint multiplies the anchor points, while the complete kit adds a blindfold and a ball gag. See also starting BDSM safely and choosing an accessory for two.

Care and precautions

Polyester and polypropylene wipe down with a damp sponge and dry flat, away from any heat source. Check the stitching, the clasps and the straps before every session, since wear always shows before it is felt. Never leave a restrained person without continuous presence, and keep safety scissors within reach without having to leave the room. This system is built for restraint on a bed, not to withstand heavy pulling or carry suspended weight.

Frequently asked questions

What do the 183 centimetres measure?

The manufacturer states a total length without saying what it covers. The four systems in the range use different measurement bases.

Does it fit every bed?

Yes, the adjustment covers all bed sizes according to the manufacturer.

Are ankles included?

Yes, four padded cuffs are supplied, two for the wrists and two for the ankles.

Can positions be changed mid-session?

Yes, through the swivel clasps, with no need to dismantle the installation.

What is it made of?

Polyester and polypropylene, according to the manufacturer.

SoPigalle tip: set the system up once alone, lie in it without fastening the last cuff, and check what you can reach. What the restrained person can grab decides everything else, and it cannot be guessed from the edge of the bed.