SecretPlay - 8-piece BDSM set, 10 m rope - Purple and black

A whip, two pairs of cuffs for wrists and ankles, an X-shaped joining piece, a perforated ball gag, a ten-metre rope, a mask, a padded collar with lead and nipple clamps: that is the list the manufacturer publishes for this set. It carries one item more than the black set's list, which does not mention the clamps. Synthetic leather stated, 1,170 grams at shipping.

Why choose this model?

• Nipple clamps included, absent from the black set's published list.
• Ten-metre rope, the only quantified figure in the set.
• Synthetic leather stated, a material the manufacturer names.
• 1,170 g at shipping, 120 less than the black set.
• No other measurement published: no cuff length, no collar size, no ball diameter.

How to use it

1. Count the pieces as you open it, published list in hand.
2. Agree a stop word and a non-verbal signal before the first session.
3. Put scissors and keys within reach before tying or closing anything.
4. Start with one piece at a time, never with the whole set.
5. Take the clamps off after fifteen minutes at most.

The black set shares almost the whole list, and the marabou cuffs are enough for a first time. See also starting BDSM safely and understanding materials.

Care and precautions

Every piece has its own rules and they do not add up. The ten-metre rope has no published permissible load: it is for tying, never for suspension. The gag is never worn unsupervised or without an agreed non-verbal signal — an object held in the hand, dropped if anything goes wrong — and comes off at the first sign of breathing trouble. Cuffs and collar: two fingers' clearance, a means of release within reach before closing, hands checked every ten minutes, never any pull on the neck. A stop word applies to the whole session and alcohol has no place in it. Wash in warm soapy water everything that touches skin; seek medical advice if a mark, numbness or pain persists after the session.

Frequently asked questions

How does it differ from the black set?

This one's list mentions nipple clamps; the black set's does not, although it weighs 120 g more.

Can the rope be used for suspension?

No. No permissible load is published: it is a tying rope, not a suspension rope.

Is the gag perforated?

Yes, the manufacturer states holes. It is still never worn unsupervised.

What material is it?

Synthetic leather, the only material the manufacturer declares for the set.

Is it suitable for beginners?

The manufacturer presents it that way. Take the pieces out one by one, not all on the first evening.

SoPigalle tip: an eight-piece set is not opened in one evening. Pick two for the first time and leave the rest in the box: it is the number of objects, more than their nature, that ruins a first session.