Fetish Fantasy Series - Spreader bar and cuff set
Fetish Fantasy Series - Spreader bar and cuff set
Two metal bars, 64 and 31 centimetres, let you choose the spread instead of enduring it. Four adjustable neoprene cuffs attach to them, at the wrists or ankles, and swivel to leave play. The Fetish Fantasy Series Spreader Bar and Cuff Set packs into a carrying case, which makes it usable somewhere other than a bedroom.
Why choose this set?
- Two lengths, 64 and 31 cm: the spread is chosen before the session and stays constant.
- Swivelling cuffs: the attachment point turns, which avoids twisting the wrist when the person shifts position.
- Adjustable neoprene: the material spreads pressure across a wider band than a thin strap.
- Removable nylon strap: it links the two bars, or comes off to immobilise only one pair of limbs.
- Carrying case: the set is rigid and bulky: the case settles storage and transport.
How to use it
- Agree on a stop signal and find the clip releases in a dry run, including in the dark.
- Adjust all four cuffs so that two fingers slide between the neoprene and the skin.
- Start with the short bar: a 31-centimetre spread is tolerated far longer than a 64-centimetre one.
- Check that hips and shoulders stay within a comfortable range, with no forced stretch.
- Check hands and feet regularly, and release at the first tingling or cooling.
Two other approaches exist in the range: the bed restraint system anchors to furniture rather than holding limbs apart from each other, and the chastity belt immobilises nothing at all, it blocks access. See also starting BDSM safely and our materials guide.
Care and precautions
The metal bars wipe down with warm soapy water; the neoprene is hand-washed and dried flat, never on a radiator. Check the stitching, the clips and the adjustment eyelets before every session. Never leave a restrained person without continuous presence, keep safety scissors within reach, and never use this set for suspension: nothing here is designed to carry a body weight off the ground. A satin blindfold comes with the set.
Frequently asked questions
How long are the bars?
One bar of 64 centimetres and one of 31 centimetres, chosen according to the spread you want.
Do the cuffs fit ankles?
Yes. All four cuffs are identical and adjustable, wrists or ankles.
What is the nylon strap for?
It links the two bars together. Removed, it lets each bar work independently.
Can it be used away from a bed?
Yes, nothing attaches to furniture. The set works standing, seated or lying down, hence the case.
What comes in the box?
Both bars, four neoprene cuffs, the support strap, the carrying case and a satin blindfold.
SoPigalle tip: neoprene does not cut easily. In an emergency the quick release is the clips, not the straps. Open them a dozen times in a dry run before the first session.